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What Do Women Want?

by: Susan Dunn, The EQ Coach

Please consider this article for your website or ezine. Permission to reprint if byline stays intact. Courtesy appreciated but not necessary if you're busy. TITLE: What Do Women Want? AUTHOR: Susan Dunn, The EQ Coach WORD COUNT: threeninesix WRAP: sixfive URL: http://www.susandunn.cc Mailto:sdunn@susandunn.cc “What do Women Want?” by Susan Dunn, The EQ Coach Freud’s famous question – what do women want? He claimed in all his years, he couldn’t figure out what women wanted. Now maybe you’ve received“King Arthur’s Dilemma: A Wise Lesson for All Men to Learn” that’s currently circulatingInternet. Here’s how it goes: Astest, young Arthur was asked to answerquestion, “What do women really want?” He finally went to “a repugnant old witch” to getanswer. She said she’d tell him if he’d marry her. He agreed and she gaveanswer: “To be in charge of their own life.” Thenwedding … and Arthur was v. reluctant. But, this beingfairytale, there was more testing of our hero ahead. She appeared to him as beautiful woman saying that since he’d been so kind to her, she’d bewitch halftime, andbeautiful maiden halftime. But he would have to choose when! He pondered …beautiful woman to show off to his friends, but at night, inprivacy of his home,old witch? Or by dayhideous hag, but by nightbeautiful woman with whom to enjoy many intimate moments? WHAT WOULD YOU DO? Which would you choose? The fable continues: “Noble Arthur replied he would let her choose for herself. Upon hearing this, she announced she would be beautiful alltime, because he had respected her enough to let her be in charge of her own life.” This came to me atinteresting time, having just finished reading “Surrendered Wife,” (http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/zerosevenfourthreetwozerofourfourfourone/susandunnmome-twozero ) and alsosynopsis of “Men are from Mars” about what MEN really want. John Gray, author oflatter, reiterates, “men and woman have very different primary needs.” Men, he says, need appreciation, acceptance, and trust. He goes on to say “Without appreciation,person begins to feel inadequate and incapable of giving support.” Funny he switches to “person” here. An unappreciated man, he says, becomes “passive, lazy, weak, dependent, insecure and apt to procrastinate.” But then so do I. Actually, I get ugly. My answer to Freud’s question “What do women want?” has always been “The same thing men want.” Laura Doyle says men need to be asked, "What do you think? That's how I'll end this article: What do YOU think women want? Male or female, did not you appreciate being asked??